this is an excerpt from a chat i had with a friend of mine; i don't know how to put it more presentably, so just copied and pasted from my gmail chats section. And of course, I took permission from Neeraj before posting this.
me: waise agar free hai to mera abhi wala status message pad aur comments
My status message at that time was:
heart: why do wishes rarely come true?
mind: because most of the times they are stupid.
heart: but they are wishes, they have all the rights to be stupid.
Neeraj: okies
kyun deewana ho jata hai koi?
kyun armaan uthte hain kahin?
maalum nahin,
yeh dil aakhir chahta kya hai?
me: hehe
achhe poet ho tum bhi
Neeraj: nahin nahin
yeh shayari gadar the movie mein thi
me: koi is sawaal ka jawaab de de to jindagi bhar gulami karein
Neeraj: :)
hahaha
well wishes have every right to be stupid
me: yup, u r correct
see this is the good thing about u
Neeraj: but not every stupidity has the right to be fulfilled
or else, where would intelligence go??
down the memory lane
:P
me: yea thats correct, but why the hell do we need intelligence
to devise ways to fulfill our wishes only, right?
Neeraj: no dude
world is not only about wishes
intelligence has to be thr to maintain a balance
imagine if the world was filled with stupidity
also its difficult to imagine a world, if everyone was intelligent
me: i am not saying stupidity
i am just saying what about a world where everyone's all wishes were fulfilled, irrespective of their stupidity or brilliance
but then again my mind says: there is no such thing as utopia
Neeraj: wouldn't that be boring??
a world full of satisfaction
no motive or reason to keep going
me: so u dont want it to be boring, that would be just another wish, it will also be fulfilled
Neeraj: it already is fulfilled
me: tahts the problem with utopia
it keeps contradicting itself
Neeraj: i dont say, none of my wishes be fulilled
me: thats why it doesnt exist
Neeraj: i am saying, some of them shud and some shud not
me: why wish if u dont want it to be fulfilled
?
Neeraj: utopia is a foolish design of a pervert mind
i want it to be fulfilled
the best part is the ignorance about these things
we want 100 things, and out of these only 10 are to be fulfilled
me: utopia is an utopian creation of a high (by use of drugs) mind
Neeraj: but the best part is, we dont know which 10
me: what if i just want ten things
Neeraj: so, we work towards fulfillment of all
me: or maybe just a couple of things
Neeraj: then only 1 will be fulfilled, if 10% rule exists
me: why cant we get them
why has this nature to be so cruel
Neeraj: nature is not cruel
just because ur mom adds pepper to ur food doesn't make her cruel
me: then why are we not intelligent enough to think of some 9 wishes which we dont want to be fulfiled
Neeraj: its the balance netween spices of life that makes it interesting
me: and tht brings us back to the question why wish a wish u dont want ot be fulfilled
Neeraj: i want all my wishes to be fulfilled
and i wud work towards them
me: why do we want interesting? why dont we want satisfying
Neeraj: but the result is not in my hands
me: mayp be that is why we are humans and not dolphins
Neeraj: coz a satisfied soul doesnot exist
me: chal bahut bore kar liya tere ko
Neeraj: maybe
me: tu jaa , pad le
Neeraj: nahin nahin
me: yea may be
Neeraj: load nahin hai
i can go on this topic for hours
have thought over it a lot
when u have an unfulfilled dream u tend to think over it
me:
i guess the important thing is that u just need an indication that u
are going in the right direction, even in the knowledge that u wont
ever reach the destination (that is complete satisfaction) or may be
that the destination doesnt even exist, even in that knowledge, the
belief that u are moving towards the right direction, the belief that
hope exists ...may be that is what is important
Neeraj: karmanye vaadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadachanah
this is one shloka that has been mis-interpreted many times
or mis-understood
me:
but then what do u do when u dont know what ur karma is...u have some
ethics , beliefs which tell u dont do that...and some desires which
tell u do that, and those desires are not against ur ethics
either...its just conflict of ur basic nature, u pitted against urself,
and u cannot even isolate the jekyll and the hyde, they are one...what
do u do then
Neeraj: thats the problem, i know there can be confusion sometimes but confrontation seldom occurs
being a jekyll and a hyde is seldom in our control
so i think we should do what our karma asks us to do when u are in whichever form
me: then atleast why dont we turn into one ...just delete the other part
it wont be painful then
Neeraj: but thats not in our hand
we created them
me: yea, but if both forms are together, how do u know what ur karma is
Neeraj: but destruction lies somewhere else
every moment we are supposed to take a decision
and this decision depends on the circustances faced by a person
me:
saala i feel helpless when i realise that we can go on discussing this
and even then, in all probability, i wont ever reach a conclusion
the only solace lies in the fact that time heals
have u ever faced such a time? or have views on this? if u hv ever thought in this direction, ur comments are more than welcome
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