Thursday, March 29, 2007

Dependence on cellphones

In the olden days of the bsnl landline, we had a small list of telephone numbers and we had all of them memorised. Today, a common man has around 200 contacts in his cellphone. Mine has 270 (remove the repeated ones and Hutch care & team and you are left with around 250). And the dependence on the cellphone results in a situation where we seldom remember phone nos. Why the hell does anybody need to remember them?!!! Thats what a cellphone address book is for.





But what if you get pick pocketed and loose your cellphone and (bad luck!) wallet together and that too in a new place??!!! Don't tell me that I am a big pessimist. This is what happened with a friend of mine last weekend.



He has just come to Bangalore and last Saturday was his second day here. He was on his way back to his place after meeting me and another friend when all this happened. Let me summarize the situation in his words :

bhaiyon on my 1st visit to the city bangi, i lost my wallet(ATM in tht) and my mobile.(so i cdn't contact)

kya swagat kiya hai bangi ne..........ravish and sinha ke saath kiya poora mazaa khatam ho gaya tha while returning, saala kaise kaise apne room pe pahuche



Now, if he had any of our numbers memorized, at least we could have gone to rescue him.



So, I have decided that I will commit to memory some important numbers. The list contains roommates, family, my manager at office, few friends in Bangalore.

If you have any suggestions to include in this list, you are welcome to comment.





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27 % Quota Policy Stayed

Now thats something to be happy about. Though the stay is not forever, the decision still carries some weight. The SC has noted that the policy can not be devised based on a census carried more than 75 years ago. It will be very tough for the union government to come up with a good answer to that. I just hope that it does its due diligence this time and does not reply in some arbitrary way so as to force the quota in the 2007-08 year.

Another good thing is that the SC bench has observed that "Reservation cannot be permanent and appear to perpetuate backwardness". An answer to this is also required. The government must have some kind of plan in place to really make the quotas (the existing SC/ST one or the proposed OBC one) effective; and that isn't possible unless they have a roll-out plan in place. The existence of a system that monitors the effectiveness and the necessity of the quota system, on an ongoing basis, is as much necessary as the quota itself, if it is at all needed.





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Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Calcutta HC puts CBI's Nandigram probe on hold

First read the news article.



I just read this news. I am sure the court would have its reasons to do so; currently I have read that the court needs time to go through all the affidavits filed before it. And I respect the court's judgment; we need to believe in the judiciary. Obviously, if the court determines that there is no need for an inquiry, then we can forget this case; but what if the court decides in favor of an investigation.



Whatever information that I have read, based on that I know that the CBI has collected evidence and the court has ordered for the evidence to be kept sealed; but there must be witnesses' statements to be recorded; other evidence to be gathered. Given the state of affairs, I am sure the probability of the witnesses being jeopardized is very high and CBI might still be in dark about some evidence which might be uncovered along the probe. There must be some way to avoid this, the legislature and the judiciary should decide upon a set of protocols which would prevent harm to an investigation in such a situation.



If anybody has more information on this case, kindly comment.





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Friday, March 23, 2007

Public speaking do's and don't's

Public speaking do's and don't's



by Eszter Hargittai



As Jerry Seinfeld once noted, at a funeral, most people would rather
be in the casket than giving the eulogy, since public speaking stresses
people out more than death. But giving talks doesn't have to be such a
frightening affair.



Whether you're giving a talk at your local library, updating your
colleagues on work progress, or presenting to a large group of
strangers, there are some simple steps that should help make public
speaking a better experience - for both you and your audience.


Presentation format



presenting5.jpgBefore
you start planning your presentation, find out from the organizers how
much time you have and what format they envision for your talk. Will
you be part of a panel or will you be speaking alone? Will you be in a
regular session or are you the dinner speaker? Do you have 15 minutes
or an hour? Do they prefer to leave time for questions? If yes, does
that come out of the allocated time you have been quoted? It is
important to know what is expected of you so you can be well prepared
and not have to scramble last minute to readjust your talk due to
unanticipated logistics.



Audience



Get information about who will be attending your presentation. Will
the head of the company be there or just co-workers? Are all
participants experts at the topic or will there be novices present? Is
there a mixed group of people representing different backgrounds or is
everyone on the same page regarding technicalities? Depending on the
audience, you will have to spend some time giving varying degrees of
background on the material and explaining certain concepts.



Location



If you have the opportunity, take a look at the location before the
time of the talk. It will help you visualize the context of the event
and ensure that you are not caught off guard by peculiarities of the
space.



The take-away message



If someone who missed your talk were to ask an audience member in
the elevator to sum it up, what would you like that person to say?
Focus on that message. Start out with this summary statement in mind
and build your presentation around it.



Outline



Once you have an idea of your presentation's main message, spend
some time thinking about the structure of the entire talk. All of the
material you cover should contribute toward communicating your core
message effectively. Start by writing an outline of the talk including
main sections and subsections.



Strong start



presenting1.jpgThe
first couple of minutes of your talk should be the most prepared and
polished. You want to get off to a good start. Those are likely to be
the most nervous moments so it is best not to leave anything to chance.
By being well prepared, you can convey your messages with confidence.
It is important to establish early on that you are prepared and are
worth people's attention.



Motivation



Spend a bit of time up front talking about the inspiration and
importance of your message. Listeners should get a bit of background on
what motivated your work or project in the first place. What may be a
fascinating topic to you may not be to the next person so don't take
for granted people's interest in the issues you are discussing. Explain
why they should pay attention and why your comments matter.



Timing



People rarely want to listen to someone for longer than the allotted
time. Few people are such amazing speakers that an audience can't get
enough of them. Do not assume you are one of those few. Wrap up your
talk on time. To achieve this goal, ask someone to give you time cues
by indicating when you have five minutes left, two minutes and when you
have run out of time. Once you get the last notice, you should stop
talking.



A common pitfall for presenters is to add unprepared introductory
remarks to their talk. The temptation of addressing previous speakers
is great, but beware. If your total alloted time is 15 minutes (a
frequent limit with many speaking engagements), adding a 3 minute intro
(not to mention longer!) will use up 20 percent of your time. However,
this is something no one ever builds into their talk. Either prepare
for this or let go of the temptation to add commentary at the last
minute.



Flexibility



Organize your talk and know it well enough to have the flexibility
to skip certain parts or expand on others depending on the
circumstances. For example, if you do add a last- minute introduction
(as per the previous point), be flexible to skip a part of the prepared
content.



Confidence and enthusiasm



You have been chosen as a speaker because you know your topic. Make
sure that you exert confidence during your presentation. Don't
apologize for what you don't have with you to present or what you do
not know. Rather, focus on what you can talk about and discuss the
material with confidence. This does not mean that you should be
arrogant or patronizing. It means that you should look comfortable
covering the material.



Be sure to enjoy your talk and show your enthusiasm about the
content. Your interest in the topic will be contagious and will likely
result in a more engaged audience.



Question-and-answer session



presenting4.jpg
If there is a Q segment then be sure to keep a polite demeanor
throughout. Thank people for their questions and feel free to praise
them for good points. If you are not sure how to respond to a query
then express your appreciation for the insightful comment and note that
you will look into it.



Practice makes perfect



Practice the presentation a few times: more if you have less
experience, less if you are a more seasoned public speaker. It can be
especially helpful to give the talk to someone who is not in your field
and is not intimately familiar with the material. This is helpful in
seeing whether you have made the talk too narrowly focused or overly
technical. Such a practice session does not have to involve the entire
talk, it can consist of telling someone about your presentation outline.



Don't write out the material word-by-word and don't plan on reading
text even if you do have it all written down. Having the text written
out and parts of it memorized will constrain you. Memorize the
structure of the talk and the outline, but not every word.



Contact information



Finish by giving the audience some contact information, including an
email address and Web site when applicable. Mention that you welcome
people's feedback and they should feel free to ask you questions either
after the session or by sending you email.



Do you have any more tips for making one's next public speaking
engagement less terrifying? Let us know in the comments or at tips at
lifehacker.com.



disclaimer: this is a copy-paste from lifehacker.

all the credit goes to them / the author









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10 Reasons You Aren't Rich

10 Reasons You Aren't Rich



Nice article. First few points are quite typical of most of us; we realize that we are doing something wrong but do not appreciate the full impact of our wrong behaviors. Next, there are some points about how we manage our investments. Small article, wont take much time to read.






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Thursday, March 22, 2007

Obedience to Authority or Just Conformity

"How far humans will go when an authority figure orders them to hurt another human being. Many wondered after the horrors of WWII, and not for the first time, how people could be motivated to commit acts of such brutality towards each other. Not just those in the armed forces, but ordinary people were coerced into carrying out the most cruel and gruesome acts."





This study, conducted by
Stanley Milgram sheds some light on this, though not without its controversies.



Personally I would agree with the conformity view. I have seen people doing stupid things - though not dangerous or stupid to a big extent, but still things which a person with a better control and thought process will deny - just because they have been asked to do so. Majority of the population, i feel, find it comfortable to follow orders and not make decisions by themselves; that i guess is the basic reason behind this and that I feel is the reason our civilization has developed in such a way that we have very few people at the top governing most of the others; take any government or any corporate, this is the basic structure of the organization. Though honestly, I cannot think of any other system which will be as stable, but its worth thinking why humans chose such a system; or to be more precise why such a system is the most stable. Any one who can shed light on this is more than welcome. :)









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Saturday, March 17, 2007

False Confessions : An Interesting Study

http://scienceblogs.com/cognitivedaily/2006/07/false_confessions_not_as_rare_1.php



This blog explains a study done on how false confessions are made and how often they are even internalized by the confessor. The article is followed by quite a few interesting and thoughtful comments. Definitely worth a read for those who like to know about how the human mind works and those in the legal (criminal) profession.



And before I end, thanks a lot to Anjai for introducing me to Google Reader, using which I reached at this article





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Thursday, March 15, 2007

A Parent's Worst Nightmare



Thats the first page of Reader's Digest India March issue. The article at page 56 "A Parent's Worst Nightmare" is a must read. The caption below the title made me read it as soon as i saw it. I wont tell the complete story here; one needs to read it firsthand to understand what a real nightmare this couple went through. In short, this couple's baby was taken away from them because the authorities thought the father was abusing her; without listening to their side of the story completely and without doing necessary tests. The baby is put in foster care where her health deteriorates considerably. Thankfully, in the end she is restored to her parents.

I kept thinking about this after reading. The US has supposedly a very good foster care / support system for children who don't have families or are better off away from their families. But this story shows a very ugly side of it.

I agree, no doubts, that a child must be removed from his family if its dangerous for him there; but the question is who determines it and how. Thinking in the Indian context; it is still very far fetched that there will be a law and a system in place for this. The proposed "paalna" system by the union government might be a first step towards that; but it itself is ages from being enacted and put in practice.

Nevertheless, I still have belief in the Indian family and social values that they are strong enough to prevent such a nightmare.





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Wednesday, January 17, 2007

Quantification of sadness

We all have bad times; some simple enough, with negligible magnitude and very small timespan - they just pass by; some significant enough to make us think and act; and some are those which force us - to think why?
Us humans, specially the breed called IITians, have a tendency to analyze everything logically. So, when faced with a difficult situation, we generally think of the reasons behind it and ways to cope with the situation. But sometimes the situation is such that it defies any normal logical thinking and then the only resort (again logic determines that it is the only remaining viable option; ironic, isn't it) is to ask why?
Like Joey said, "Why God, Why me?".
And then the left half of the mind takes over from the right, suppressing the pain in the way, and thinks whether pain is quantifiable? Whether a physically greater loss or more difficult problem would have caused more pain (and by pain I mean the emotional one, the one which is in our brain; or our hearts, to say more romantically) ; and then it thinks how could you measure that pain? After all, you have already resigned yourself to it; just asking questions; knocking on God's doors to pray; can there be more helplessness?
sadly, after a lot of deliberation, you reach just one conclusion, and as always a logical one, that you can not gauge this unless you face such a situation.

And they said that we were an intelligent lot...

Saturday, May 13, 2006

memories

the last time i saw her - she was wearing a yellow salwar suit. it was an exam and she was seated a couple of benches ahead of me. I didnt even get a good look at her face.

Then 3 years later, i got hold of her email id. Actually, i was searching for it & when i saw one of the search results, i knew it was hers. I mailed asking if it was she. No prizes for guessing what the reply was. Of course, it was she.

And they said that love was blind. Huh - love can see beyond a million email ids, at least.

Aneways, a couple of mails later, it was clear that my mailing her any more will only be a nuisance to her. So, I stopped.

Fast forward to today, I saw her photo on orkut. One out of many profiles with the same name. You know, I hadnt seen her for five years, completely forgotten what she looked like (or so I thought)but one pic was enough to tell me that this was her.

Again, who said love was blind?? Love makes u spot out a face from a million. Its definitely not blind.

Coming back to our story, as luck would have it, I found she was committed. And, like the last time I left her alone.

Let me tell you, i wont ever doubt this decision. And I am happy with the memories;
the memory of her cute face
the memory of how cute she looked in her bubbly dresses
the memory of the skipped heartbeat i had today when i saw her photo

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

DR. APJ Abdul Kalaam's speech in Hyderabad

First read the speech (do read it carefully and completely, pls)

"I have three visions for India.

In 3000 years of our history, people from all over the world have come and invaded us, captured our lands, conquered our minds. From Alexander onwards. The Greeks, the Turks, the Moguls, the Portuguese, the British, the French, the Dutch, all of them came and looted us, took over what was ours. Yet we have not done this to any other nation. We have not conquered anyone.

We have not grabbed their land, their culture, their history and tried to enforce our way of life on them. Why? Because we respect the freedom of others. That is why my first vision is that of FREEDOM. I believe that India got its first vision of this in 1857, when we started the war of independence. It is this freedom that we must protect and nurture and build on. If we are not free, no one will respect us.

My second vision for India is DEVELOPMENT. For fifty years we have been a developing nation. It is time we see ourselves as a developed nation.

We are among top 5 nations of the world in terms of GDP We have 10 percent growth rate in most areas. Our poverty levels are falling. Our achievements are being globally recognized today. Yet we lack the self-confidence to see ourselves as a developed
nation, self- reliant and self-assured. Isn't this incorrect?

I have a THIRD vision.

India must stand up to the world. Because I believe that, unless India stands up to the world, no one will respect us. Only strength respects strength. We must be strong not only as a military power but also as an economic power. Both must go hand-in-hand. My good fortune was to have worked with three great minds. Dr. Vikram Sarabhai of the Dept. of space, Professor Satish Dhawan, who succeeded him and Dr.Brahm Prakash, father of nuclear material. I was lucky to have worked with all three of them closely and consider this the great opportunity of my life.

I see four milestones in my career:

Twenty years I spent in ISRO. I was given the opportunity to be the project director for India's first satellite launch vehicle, SLV3. The one that launched Rohini. These years played a very important role in my life of Scientist.

After my ISRO years, I joined DRDO and got a chance to be the part of India's guided missile program. It was my second bliss when Agni met its mission requirements in 1994.

The Dept. of Atomic Energy and DRDO had this tremendous partnership in the recent nuclear tests, on May 11 and 13. This was the third bliss. The joy of participating with my team in these nuclear tests and proving to the world that India can make it, that we are no longer a developing nation but one of them. It made me feel very proud as an Indian. The fact that we have now developed for Agni a re-entry structure, for which we have developed this new material. A Very light material called carbon-carbon.

One day an orthopedic surgeon from Nizam Institute of Medical Sciences visited my laboratory. He lifted the material and found it so light that he took me to his hospital and showed me his patients. There were these little girls and boys with heavy metallic calipers weighing over three Kg. each, dragging their feet around.

He said to me: Please remove the pain of my patients.

In three weeks, we made these Floor reaction Orthosis 300-gram calipers and took them to the orthopedic center. The children didn't believe their eyes. >>From dragging around a three kg. load on their legs, they could now move around!

Their parents had tears in their eyes. That was my fourth bliss!

Why is the media here so negative?
Why are we in India so embarrassed to recognize our own strengths, our achievements? We are such a great nation. We have so many amazing success stories but we refuse to acknowledge them.

Why?

We are the first in milk production.
We are number one in Remote sensing satellites.
We are the second largest producer of wheat.
We are the second largest producer of rice.
Look at Dr. Sudarshan, he has transferred the tribal village into a self-sustaining, self driving unit. There are millions of such achievements but our media is only obsessed in the bad news and failures and disasters.

I was in Tel Aviv once and I was reading the Israeli newspaper. It was the day after a lot of attacks and bombardments and deaths had taken place. The Hamas had struck. But the front page of the newspaper had the picture of a Jewish gentleman who in five years had transformed his desert land into an orchid and a granary. It was this inspiring picture that everyone woke up to. The gory details of killings, bombardments, deaths, were inside in the newspaper, buried among other news.

In India we only read about death, sickness, terrorism, crime. Why are we so NEGATIVE?

Another question : Why are we, as a nation so obsessed with foreign things?

We want foreign TVs, we want foreign shirts. We want foreign technology. Why this obsession with everything imported.
Do we not realize that self-respect comes with self-reliance?

I was in Hyderabad giving this lecture, when a 14 year old girl asked me for my autograph. I asked her what her goal in life is.

She replied: I want to live in a developed India.

For her, you and I will have to build this developed India. You must proclaim. India is not an under-developed nation; it is a highly developed nation.

Do you have 10 minutes? Allow me to come back with a vengeance.

Got 10 minutes for your country? If yes, then read; otherwise, choice is yours.

YOU say that our government is inefficient.
YOU say that our laws are too old.
YOU say that the municipality does not pick up the garbage.
YOU say that the phones don' t work, the railways are a joke, the airline is the worst in the world, mails never reach their destination.
YOU say that our country has been fed to the dogs and is the absolute pits.
YOU say, say and say.

What do YOU do about it?

Take a person on his way to Singapore..... Give him a name - YOURS. Give him a face - YOURS. YOU walk out of the airport and you are at your International best. In Singapore you don't throw cigarette butts on the roads or eat in the stores. YOU are as proud of their Underground links as they are. You pay $5 (approx. Rs.60) to drive through Orchard Road (equivalent of Mahim Causeway or Pedder Road) between 5 PM and 8 PM. YOU comeback to the parking lot to punch your parking ticket if you have over stayed in a restaurant or a shopping mall irrespective of your status identity. In Singapore you don't say anything, DO YOU? YOU wouldn't dare to eat in public during Ramadan, in Dubai. YOU would not dare to go out without your head covered in Jeddah. YOU would not dare to buy an employee of the telephone exchange in London at 10 pounds ( Rs.650) a month to, "see to it that my STD and ISD calls are billed to someone else." YOU would not dare to speed beyond 55 mph (88 km/h) in Washington and then tell the traffic cop, "Jaanta hai main kaun hoon (Do you know who I am?). I am so and so's son. Take your two bucks and get lost."

YOU wouldn't chuck an empty coconut shell anywhere other than the garbage pail on the beaches in Australia and New Zealand.

Why don't YOU spit Paan on the streets of Tokyo?
Why don't YOU use examination jockeys or buy fake certificates in Boston???
We are still talking of the same YOU.
YOU who can respect and conform to a foreign system in other countries but cannot in your own.
You who will throw papers and cigarettes on the road the moment you touch Indian ground. If you can be an involved and appreciative citizen in an alien country, why cannot you be the same here in India?

Once in an interview, the famous Ex-municipal commis sioner of Bombay, Mr.Tinaikar, had a point to make. "Rich people's dogs are walked on the streets to leave their affluent droppings all over the place," he said. "And then the same people turn around to criticize and blame the authorities for inefficiency and dirty pavements. What do they expect the officers to do? Go down with a broom every time their dog feels the pressure in his bowels?

In America every dog owner has to clean up after his pet has done the job. Same in Japan. Will the Indian citizen do that here?" He's right.

We go to the polls to choose a government and after that forfeit all responsibility. We sit back wanting to be pampered and expect the government to do everything for us whilst our contribution is totally negative. We expect the government to clean up but we are not going to stop chucking garbage all over the place nor are we going to stop to pick a up a stray piece of paper and throw it in the bin. We expect the railways to provide clean bathrooms but we are not going to learn the proper use of bathrooms.

We want Indian Airlines and Air India to provide the best of food and toiletries but we are not going to stop pilfering at the least opportunity. This applies even to the staff who is known not to pass on the service to the public. When it comes to burning social issues like those related to women, dowry, girl child and others, we make loud drawing room protestations and continue to do the reverse at home. Our excuse? "It's the whole system which has to change, how will it matter if I alone forego my sons' rights to a dowry." So who's going to change the system?

What does a system consist of? Very conveniently for us it consists of our neighbors, other households, other cities, other communities and the government. But definitely not me and YOU.
When it comes to us actually making a positive contribution to the system we lock ourselves along with our families into a safe cocoon and look into the distance at countries far away and wait for a Mr. Clean to come along & work miracles for us with a majestic sweep of his hand or we leave the country and run away.

Like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England. When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government. Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country. Nobody thinks of feeding the system. Our conscience is mortgaged to money.

Dear Indians, The article is highly thought inductive, calls for a great deal of introspection and pricks one's conscience too....I am echoing J.F.Kennedy's words to his fellow Americans to relate to Indians.....

"ASK WHAT WE CAN DO FOR INDIA AND DO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO MAKE INDIA WHAT AMERICA AND OTHER WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE TODAY"


Lets do what India needs from us.

Forward this message to each Indian for a change instead of sending Jokes or junk mails.

Thank you,
Dr. Abdul Kalaam
(PRESIDENT OF INDIA)


This is one of the best lectures i have ever read or head.
When I was in the four bliss part, it seemed good but wasnt affecting me much. But when it came to that part where I am at Singapore, I started realizing. How true he is!!

I find myself guilty of the wrongs that he has described. How often do we change our behaviour depending on the surroundings - you are in a big posh shopping mall, you behave all nice and goody goody; move to the local neighbourhood bazar and think about your actions, you will understand Dr. Kalam's views.

Well, I am gonna do two things to start with. First, I am gonna change my behaviour like above; and second, I will refrain from using the words - pura system hi aisa hai. If there is something wrong, find out the person(s) accountable and blame them, not the whole system. And don't forget to take responsibility and contribute positively.

Thursday, January 26, 2006

constitution vs parliament

learnt an interesting thing today about the Indian Constitution.

The Indian Constitution closely follows the the British Parliamentary model, but differs from it in one important respect that is, the Constitution is supreme, not the Parliament. So the Indian courts are vested with the authority to adjudicate on the constitutionality of any law passed by the Indian Parliament.

source: http://finance.indiamart.com/government_india/constitution/

i always thought that the parliament was the supereme thing, they passed a law and nobody could question that, except, of course, another session of the parliament. It feels good to know that the court can interfere in this regard. Thank goodness..and thank Ambedkar and team for ensuring this.

Friday, December 16, 2005

Wrongful Imprisonment: Anatomy of a CIA Mistake

read the article first

I wonder what is the reason behind such mistakes by one of the most advanced security organisations of the world. There are two possibilities which come into my mind: one that such things are inherent in the system and the so called war against terrorism, and the other that the people running such operations are more worried about getting results to show to their boss than really curbing the problem of terrorism.

I think its a mix of both. Like one example in the article says, one person was arrested because an al Qaida operative named him out of vendetta(apparently he was the al Qaida guy's prof and didn't give him good grades). Naturally, initially the CIA would apprehend the prof guy. But it gets bad when u keep him under custody for long without any real evidence.
Its an established principle that no matter how many criminals go scotfree but law should never punish an innocent. Some trouble to the innocent is necessary - an evil necessity of today's world. But care must be taken to prevent this. The priority of catching terrorists and that of not catching innocent men should be similar.
And this can be insured only when the top level people of such an organisation took steps accordingly. We cannot expect field operatives to take care of this.

So ultimately it boils down to the decision of the policy makers. What they need to understand is that , apart from facing the immediate scenario with the correct amount of gunpower, we need to take care that the hatred which leads to terrorism is removed. We need to remove terrorism and not terrorists. After all, by troubling innocent people we are creating more negativity than any positive results we expect.

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

sandy gets into ITC

well, the title of the post says it all. His interview was yesterday, as was five others'.All, except one, got placed.
A couple of days ago, i was telling shukla that he's gonna get through the interview. The guy really deserved it.
And then when we got the news yesterday, i was telling shukla, yaar is bande mein kuch to hai. aise dekho to koi difference nahi hai apne aur iske beech mein, but....

Well, we look for studs in kgp, one lives 2.5 metres from me. :D

talking of job scenario, TJ's got a ppo from TI. though he is still awaiting a formal letter, but i guess its for the better. It still gives him chance to try for other companies.

I have taken a very risky decision of going for only core EC companies. Sometimes, i really get scared. But then, okhal mein sir daal hi diya hai to musal se kya darna

Neeraj has said that from 21st onwards, he will wake up early and pray for us . well Neeraj u beeter remember that and bhagwan ji, please Neeraj ki sun lena.

Tuesday, November 08, 2005

chhathh and our culture

Just went out of my room to go to the bathroom and heard chhathh songs floating in the air and pathakas being cracked. Its the final day of the festival when people offer prayers to sun god at dawn. I was flooded with the memories of my childhood when I used to visit my maternal grandparents' place or my aunt's place during chhathh. We used to go to the ghats on this morning and people would go knee deep in chilling water and pray for their sons/daughters to the sun god. pathake phodo , prasad khao...Man those were the days.
these are small bits of happiness which bind me to my place and these are why I intend to spend my life in India, close to where I belong.

Monday, September 26, 2005

Schindler's List

Just saw this all time hit steven spielberg classic.
Its about a German factory owner who saves a large number of Jewish people from death during the Holocaust, based on Thomas Keneally’s book about Oskar Schindler. Released in 1993, this film won 7 academy awards, including Academy Awards for Best Picture, Best Director, and Best Adapted Screenplay. Intending to profit from the war, Schindler (played by Liam Neeson) employs Jewish people at very low wages in his factory. When he realizes that his workers will be killed in a concentration camp, he takes drastic steps to save them all.
Its just mindblowing. We have read about the jewish camps in history. Here we see it. IMDB #6 in top 250.
This was the first WW2 movie i have seen. It makes me think about the basic values of life. I mean, here i am all comfortable , sitting in front of a PC writing this blog and there are people in this world suffering due to war, be it in iraq or israel or anywhere else. Its not that i dont have worries , but they are like what kind of a job i will get, how much it will pay. But these people live in a constant state of fear and uncertainty. Cast aside the problem of war ravaged people in far flung countries, there are people in my own country so poor, that they sell there children for money.
From one point of view, the easier one, i feel its their problem. Its not going to affect me , so why should I worry. But then my other half says - u call urself to be in the elite section of the society, and though it is rare, u feel pain when u see this suffering. So u need to do something about it.
This is what i am thinking - using my conscious brain and logic. But far below, in my heart, what troubles me most is how can people do such horrible things to fellow human beings - for that matter to any living being. Today i saw another movie, Matribhoomi. Its similar in the sense of people behaving like animals. These are deliberate acts, not hot blooded. And these were not committed in some barbarical past. They are true for today as well. How can one do so?
Signing off now, got a class at 9.30 .
Hats off to Mr Schindler. May u rest in peace.